November 8-10 2024 - Tulsa, OK
December 6-8 2024 - Tulsa, OK
Join us for a powerful in-person weekend at the Stoney Creek Hotel in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. This in-person workshop will allow you to disconnect from the distractions in every-day life.
Unable to attend our in-person workshops? Get the help you need from the comfort of your home with our Live-On-Zoom option.
We offer completely pre-recorded versions of our most impactful workshops so you can get the support you need at a pace that is comfortable for you.
I (Brad) wanted to become the marriage therapist I wish my parents had after they completely lost hope after my dad was unfaithful. I knew that what led my dad to stray could become a generational problem and I had to stop that. When I discovered what couples really need when healing broken trust I knew I had to share it with as many people as possible.
Brad is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in helping couples heal broken trust, stop their divorce, and save their marriage. We also help individuals heal from traumas that make connecting difficult to impossible. We help you clear away anything that keeps you from freely loving and experiencing love.
One of the cornerstones of the Healing Broken Trust method is the emphasis on trauma therapies. Why? Because lasting change depends on healing the deep wounds created by, and worsened by, broken trust. When we’re stuck in such deep pain it’s so very hard to live life fully. I can relate. I’ve been there too.
Let me introduce you to the time tested tools I’ve gained as an Licensed Professional Counselor and after working closely with Brad.
These tools will help you even if you’re struggling with stress, flashbacks, unable to sleep, unable to heal, and lacking peace.
If you’re working on your relationship and still can’t find relief, trauma therapy is the next step.
A workshop for reluctant and committed couples. It’s okay to not be sure you want to stay in the marriage. Attend your workshop anytime during the program.
Attend the workshop together and experience healing face-to-face with the experts. Workshops are held in-person or online.
Trust. Joy. Passion. Romance. Forgiveness. Respect. Admiration from others and yourself is waiting.
The Problem with Progress
What is PTSD
Bullseye - Creating Valuable/Trust
Attachment Theory Flow Chart
Attachment Science
Healing Broken Trust Triangle
7 Stages of Affair Recovery
Affair Repair Healing Milestones
9 Basic Moves to Do Everyday for Affair Repair
Limerence
13 Reasons Leaving For the Affair Partner Won’t Work
Ground Rules for Talking About the Affair
Positive Cycles
Managing Conflict
Managing Negative Cycles
Grief & Healing Grief Ritual
Shame
Why People Stray
14 Things the Unfaithful Have in Common
Childhood Emotional Maltreatment & Infidelity
3 Drivers of Affairs
Questionnaire to Discover Why
Boundaries
How to Heal the Deep Wound of Betrayal
Bonding Events
Longterm Roadmap to a Better Marriage
"We came in blind and didn't have any idea what to expect. What we found is incredible."
-KEN AND GRETCHEN
"This workshop is great. It has brought to light a lot I was unaware of being married for 20 years to the woman I've loved."
-JIM AND ANNA
"We were going to get divorced...without you...I wouldn't be where I am now."
-JAMES AND JOYCE
-CATHERINE AND JOE
Self-doubt and feeling helpless are common feelings people have when their marriage is in crisis. You’ve probably tried other things before. Our secret sauce is why I’m confident this will work for you. We have a trauma-informed approach that’s blended with the best couples research. Nobody else is doing that. We’re the leaders in merging those two fields together. And frankly, our results speak for themselves.
40% of people say marriage counseling made their marriage worse, not better. There are some good marriage counselors out there. In fact, I consider myself a great one. The problem with almost all marriage counseling is it neglects the wound and the betrayal that has happened in the marriage. Instead, it rushes to improve our communication or connection without addressing the trauma that’s happened between the couple and the new negative identities that are created from the infidelity. Yes, this is a couples issue, but it’s also the biggest wound 90% of people who’ve been betrayed have experienced. That can’t be neglected or glossed over. And both partners need to know how to address it. That’s why most marriage counseling fails.
What you’ll discover through our program are invaluable things about yourself and tools and skills that you can use to improve any relationship that you’re in. We want to see you and your spouse be happily married, but if you end up divorcing you’ll know what you can do to save your next relationship before it starts with what we’ll show you.
We cover any kind of betrayal or broken trust. Limerence, emotional affairs, physical affairs are some of what is covered.
Our results speak for themselves. We believe we are the best at what we do. You won’t find a better marriage healing and trust-rebuilding program anywhere.
Money and expenses are always tight, but you won’t always have the opportunity to work on your marriage with a willing spouse. Waiting too long can cost you your marriage. Your marriage is in crisis right now and if they are willing to work on it with you right now you should jump at that chance.
Please call your insurance provider to see if they will. We do not bill insurance.
Because the first 90 days are often the hardest the program is structured as a 3 month plan. However, you will have access forever and can refer back to the content as much as you want at any time. You will also have access to the weekly group meetings for 1 year.
In the online content there are a few trauma exercises, at the workshop there's an optional group trauma session. You can also schedule sessions with Brad or another therapist on our staff.
You can discuss your situation with us by calling or texting our office at 918-281-6060
Contact our office for information. Call 918-281-6060.
Sometimes people are concerned about credit because some popular financial advisers say that debt is bad. But these same financial advisers make exceptions for when a marriage is in crisis. If credit is to be leveraged for any reason NOW is the time. When your entire life (and your kids) - past, present, and future are at stake.
As soon as you pay, you will receive immediate access to the content. It's important to check your email regularly. We send the content to the email you use to register. If you have trouble finding the content please check your spam box and/or call or text our office at 918-281-6060.
We know how that is. 3 days away from littles can be a lot for the family to take. That is why we provide a pre-recorded workshop inside the members area. We also allow you to split up the days over months. So you can do day 1 one month and day 2 and 3 another month or some other combination.
When you click “enroll” you will see the dates available and you can purchase tickets for the exact workshop you want to attend.
Normally once a month. You have 6 months from the date of purchase to register for and attend a workshop. Workshops are offered in person and virtual.
No, meals and lodging are not included.
No, the group rate is about the same as the normal rate.
No, you can stay wherever you would like to stay.
Individual therapy is usually concerned with your past. This addresses the past, present and future key milestones so your marriage can heal. It is specific to healing broken trust unlike individual therapy.