Suffering after infidelity?

No Marriage Is Beyond Hope

Join Us For The Next Couple’s Workshop

November 8-10 2024 - Tulsa, OK

December 6-8 2024 - Tulsa, OK

You Can Attend The Workshop...

IN-PERSON

Join us for a powerful in-person weekend at the Stoney Creek Hotel in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. This in-person workshop will allow you to disconnect from the distractions in every-day life.

LIVE-ON-ZOOM

Unable to attend our in-person workshops? Get the help you need from the comfort of your home with our Live-On-Zoom option.

PRE-RECORDED

We offer completely pre-recorded versions of our most impactful workshops so you can get the support you need at a pace that is comfortable for you.

Our mission is to make our transformative workshop accessible to everyone. By providing multiple formats, we ensure that everyone, no matter their situation, has the opportunity to strengthen their relationship. Don't let logistics be the barrier to a happier, healthier marriage.

Meet Your Experts

Brad & Morgan

PROGRAM CREATORS

You need the expert who knows how to heal deep traumatic wounds just like infidelity. For nearly two decades we’ve been helping couples and individuals heal broken trust. We know what works and what doesn’t work to heal. We know the pain of betrayal first hand.

I (Brad) wanted to become the marriage therapist I wish my parents had after they completely lost hope after my dad was unfaithful. I knew that what led my dad to stray could become a generational problem and I had to stop that. When I discovered what couples really need when healing broken trust I knew I had to share it with as many people as possible.

Brad is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in helping couples heal broken trust, stop their divorce, and save their marriage. We also help individuals heal from traumas that make connecting difficult to impossible. We help you clear away anything that keeps you from freely loving and experiencing love.

Erik

LICENSED PROFESSIONAL COUNSELOR

Almost everyone has a story of injury or hurt. Most of us get stuck somewhere along the way trying to work through it.

One of the cornerstones of the Healing Broken Trust method is the emphasis on trauma therapies. Why? Because lasting change depends on healing the deep wounds created by, and worsened by, broken trust. When we’re stuck in such deep pain it’s so very hard to live life fully. I can relate. I’ve been there too.

Let me introduce you to the time tested tools I’ve gained as an Licensed Professional Counselor and after working closely with Brad.

These tools will help you even if you’re struggling with stress, flashbacks, unable to sleep, unable to heal, and lacking peace.

If you’re working on your relationship and still can’t find relief, trauma therapy is the next step.

Why Choose Us?

100% of individuals reported that dealing with their pain together makes healing easier.

Most individuals who deal with their trauma in the way we do in our workshop report feeling tremendous relief and ease of communication with their spouse.

Researched, tested, and proven solutions.

Our roots are in attachment therapy but we strive to expand beyond any single method (EFT, CBT, etc) because each couple is different and we want to use whatever is best for each unique situation.

98% of individuals reported they're better than before participating in the program.

Most individuals find that when they implement the tools and teachings we provide, they feel more confident and optimistic in their future.

Saves you time and money.

Right now, in this crisis, everything counts. Everything helps or hurts. When you make fewer mistakes, there's fewer injuries to the relationship.

“We have four kids. They would have been forever negatively impacted by a divorce, but thankfully, my husband and I are happier than ever.”

“Brad saved our marriage—no doubt about it! Sounds crazy writing this but it’s true. Brad helped us realize the root cause of the affair. This allowed me to truly forgive—with understanding comes compassion and grace. He also taught us how to stop the negative cycle, how to work on our relationship, and how to maintain connection and intimacy."

-RYAN AND MIA

How To Get Started

A workshop for reluctant and committed couples. It’s okay to not be sure you want to stay in the marriage. Attend your workshop anytime during the program.

Attend the workshop together and experience healing face-to-face with the experts. Workshops are held in-person or online.

Trust. Joy. Passion. Romance. Forgiveness. Respect. Admiration from others and yourself is waiting.

The Agenda

Day 1

  • The Problem with Progress

  • What is PTSD

  • Bullseye - Creating Valuable/Trust

  • Attachment Theory Flow Chart

  • Attachment Science

  • Healing Broken Trust Triangle

  • 7 Stages of Affair Recovery

  • Affair Repair Healing Milestones

  • 9 Basic Moves to Do Everyday for Affair Repair

  • Limerence

  • 13 Reasons Leaving For the Affair Partner Won’t Work

  • Ground Rules for Talking About the Affair

  • Positive Cycles

  • Managing Conflict

Day 2

  • Managing Negative Cycles

  • Grief & Healing Grief Ritual

  • Shame

  • Why People Stray

  • 14 Things the Unfaithful Have in Common

  • Childhood Emotional Maltreatment & Infidelity

  • 3 Drivers of Affairs

  • Questionnaire to Discover Why

Day 3

  • Boundaries

  • How to Heal the Deep Wound of Betrayal

  • Bonding Events

  • Longterm Roadmap to a Better Marriage

Is This For You?

This Is For You If...

This Is Not For You If...

The Results You're Going to Get

Hear From Others Like You

"We came in blind and didn't have any idea what to expect. What we found is incredible."

-KEN AND GRETCHEN

"This workshop is great. It has brought to light a lot I was unaware of being married for 20 years to the woman I've loved."

-JIM AND ANNA

"We were going to get divorced...without you...I wouldn't be where I am now."

-JAMES AND JOYCE

“We were reminded of why we fell in love and why we continue to fight for the relationship”

-CATHERINE AND JOE

Frequently Asked Questions

Will This Work For Me?

Self-doubt and feeling helpless are common feelings people have when their marriage is in crisis. You’ve probably tried other things before. Our secret sauce is why I’m confident this will work for you. We have a trauma-informed approach that’s blended with the best couples research. Nobody else is doing that. We’re the leaders in merging those two fields together. And frankly, our results speak for themselves.

I've Tried Marriage Counseling, It Didn't Work. How Does This Compare?

40% of people say marriage counseling made their marriage worse, not better. There are some good marriage counselors out there. In fact, I consider myself a great one. The problem with almost all marriage counseling is it neglects the wound and the betrayal that has happened in the marriage. Instead, it rushes to improve our communication or connection without addressing the trauma that’s happened between the couple and the new negative identities that are created from the infidelity. Yes, this is a couples issue, but it’s also the biggest wound 90% of people who’ve been betrayed have experienced. That can’t be neglected or glossed over. And both partners need to know how to address it. That’s why most marriage counseling fails.

What Happens If It Doesn't Work For Me?

What you’ll discover through our program are invaluable things about yourself and tools and skills that you can use to improve any relationship that you’re in. We want to see you and your spouse be happily married, but if you end up divorcing you’ll know what you can do to save your next relationship before it starts with what we’ll show you.

Is This Just For Physical Affairs?

We cover any kind of betrayal or broken trust. Limerence, emotional affairs, physical affairs are some of what is covered.

Is the Quality Really as Good as They Say It Is?

Our results speak for themselves. We believe we are the best at what we do. You won’t find a better marriage healing and trust-rebuilding program anywhere.

It's Too Expensive.

Money and expenses are always tight, but you won’t always have the opportunity to work on your marriage with a willing spouse. Waiting too long can cost you your marriage. Your marriage is in crisis right now and if they are willing to work on it with you right now you should jump at that chance.

Will Insurance Cover This Program?

Please call your insurance provider to see if they will. We do not bill insurance.

How Long Does It Last?

Because the first 90 days are often the hardest the program is structured as a 3 month plan. However, you will have access forever and can refer back to the content as much as you want at any time. You will also have access to the weekly group meetings for 1 year.

How Do The Trauma Sessions Work?

In the online content there are a few trauma exercises, at the workshop there's an optional group trauma session. You can also schedule sessions with Brad or another therapist on our staff.

What Happens After The 3 Months?

You can discuss your situation with us by calling or texting our office at 918-281-6060

Is There a Payment Plan?

Contact our office for information. Call 918-281-6060.

How Do I Talk To My Partner About The Payment Plan?

Sometimes people are concerned about credit because some popular financial advisers say that debt is bad. But these same financial advisers make exceptions for when a marriage is in crisis. If credit is to be leveraged for any reason NOW is the time. When your entire life (and your kids) - past, present, and future are at stake.

How Do I Access The Homework?

As soon as you pay, you will receive immediate access to the content. It's important to check your email regularly. We send the content to the email you use to register. If you have trouble finding the content please check your spam box and/or call or text our office at 918-281-6060.

What If I Can't Find a Babysitter?

We know how that is. 3 days away from littles can be a lot for the family to take. That is why we provide a pre-recorded workshop inside the members area. We also allow you to split up the days over months. So you can do day 1 one month and day 2 and 3 another month or some other combination.

Is There Space For Us?

When you click “enroll” you will see the dates available and you can purchase tickets for the exact workshop you want to attend.

How Often Do You Have The Workshop?

Normally once a month. You have 6 months from the date of purchase to register for and attend a workshop. Workshops are offered in person and virtual.

Are Meals And Lodging Included?

No, meals and lodging are not included.

Is There A Hotel Group Rate?

No, the group rate is about the same as the normal rate.

Do We Have To Stay At The Hotel Where The Conference Is?

No, you can stay wherever you would like to stay.

We're Already In Individual Therapy, Do We Need This?

Individual therapy is usually concerned with your past. This addresses the past, present and future key milestones so your marriage can heal. It is specific to healing broken trust unlike individual therapy.

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